iTunes 9 for Families, Decoupage, and other Live Dad Notes

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Girlie Birthday
If you want data of our efforts to avoid being Princess Parents, you need look no further than the birthday celebrations we had for Ri-ri over the past week. On the girly side, we have the present her mother gave her, and the craft project I came up with to kick off her birthday party — decorating jewelry boxes with decoupage.

For the project I went to the craft store and bought tiny brown cardboard boxes in a variety of shapes, thin craft paper in a variety of colors and patterns, decoupage glue (it’s specialized goo that dries into a clear glaze), and a bunch of glittery stickers. You tear or cut the paper into quarter size or smaller bits, glue them to the box, then paint over the paper with another layer of glue. When the glue has dried, you can add stickers for more personalization. (In the future I would drop this last part — it was the most expensive “ingredient” and you have to wait before you can use them.) The materials cost about $5 per kid.

Okay, this project may have you asking some pointed questions about me. So to clear things up, I had never in my f*cking life heard of decoupage before I hit the door of the craft store. A helpful clerk dude with a really long ponytail saw me wandering the aisles like a zombie and took pity on me. Thanks to him, Ri-ri’s party got off to a great start. They loved doing the project and the boxes came out great and were perfect party favors.

Pretty princess-y so far, right? The rest of the party was strictly in accordance with Ri-ri’s wishes. All she asked for was to have five friends over to the community pool, and to eat a bunch of barbecue. Done deal. The barbecue was from Rudy’s, not only because they have solid ‘cue, but also because their group meals are so thoughtfully and completely catered. Tablecloths and serving utensils? A bag of ice? Unmatched.

The high school football game that was on the agenda was a washout (ironic given the drought), but everyone seemed to have a great time. Speaking of football, the non-girly celebration continued the next day as Ri-ri continued our tradition of making the home opener for the University of Texas Longhorns Football team a father-daughter event. Nothing could be better.

Overall, not such a girly birthday after all.

iTunes 9 for Families (From our weekly Tech Dad segment)

One of my biggest technical headaches to date has been managing the multiple family iPods. Both of my older kids have their own Nano and their own profiles/iTunes applications — all linked to my iTunes account for purchasing. This creates lots of time consuming headaches when making sure that I have the media they want on their players, and also archived in a central place.

The latest update of iTunes just made that a ton easier. With the new Home Share feature on iTunes 9, I can link all the libraries and move media without having to connect, synch and re-synch iPods on multiple machines. The kids can now also drag and drop songs from my collection into theirs (like they’ll want my music).

The potential downside is that I have material in my library that is not appropriate for them (thanks Ben Folds and Hellboy). As usual, Apple has included easy to use parental controls. You can restrict access to content via Home Share via the Preferences Menu in iTunes (as opposed to the Parental Controls panel in System Preferences). Set the ratings you want your kid to have access to, then set a password and you’re done. This is a feature I’ve been waiting for and it’s been a huge help to me already.

On the show we also shared our thoughts on Bobcat Goldthwait’s “World’s Greatest Dad,” talked about the dangers of kids and “Reply All,” the Sigg Bottle controversy, a breast pumping Swedish Dad and much more. Hope we’ll see you next week.